Built for the shy, the neurodivergent, and anyone who’s ever sat across from a stranger and gone blank! In the previous edition a lot of you matched! This time we improved the web app based on your feedback, so it’s gonna be even better. (FREE RSVP mandatory below.) The doors close at 20. The game starts at 20:15. Watch this video to see how the speed dating works: Here’s how it actually works. You scan a QR code at the event, pick the interests that describe you, music, hobbies, how you date, what you’re into. Set your filters, age range, monogamous, non-monogamous, open to both. The app reads the room and recommends who to meet, ranked by how compatible you are. You’ll get a list of recommendations where you are both recommended to each other. No second-guessing whether to approach them. No wondering if you’re reading the signals right. If they are on your recommended list, you are on their recommended list too. Go say hi. No chair rotation. No 3 minute rounds. No sitting across from someone you have nothing in common with, waiting for a bell to free you. No host calling time. No performing on demand. You talk for as long as the conversation holds. You move on when you want to. After the event, if you both marked each other as interested, your contact info gets shared. No awkward “can i get your number” moment. No shooting your shot in the moment and being scared of rejection. Built for sapphics who clocked traditional speed dating as a nightmare scenario. Neurodivergent, shy, introverted, anyone who needs structure that isn’t “be charming for ninety seconds or fail.” We use this digital solution to make flirting in person easier. Best of both worlds! Ring Sidenkällaren when you get to the door! A note from Sidenkällaren: please do not paint graffiti in the toilets.
Quick facts
- When
- Doors 19:00, game starts 20:15
- Duration
- 4 hours
- Tickets
- Free
Getting there
Venue
Sidenkällaren
Repslagargatan 15D, Stockholm
Common questions
When does Lilith speed dating start and how long is it?
The event takes place on July 27, 2026, starting at 19:00 and ending at 23:00. Doors close at 20:00, and the speed dating game begins at 20:15.
What are the ticket prices?
Tickets for this event are free, but an RSVP is mandatory to attend.
How does the speed dating game work?
Participants scan a QR code to use a web app that recommends compatible matches based on shared interests and dating preferences. Instead of timed rounds, you are free to start and end conversations at your own pace with people on your recommendation list.
Is there a specific entry requirement at the venue?
When you arrive at Sidenkällaren, you are instructed to ring the bell at the door to be let in.
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